Help with masturbation (female)

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Relax, read some erotica, look at some soft porn, but most of all relax. It sometimes takes practice and a good vibrator or dildo. Oh, and one more thing, if you've had any really hot and steamy cybersex lately just fantasize about that too. I may be older than you but i am a voice of experience and haven't gotten laid by my husband in five months, so toys and good cybering help me alot.
As they say, Practice makes perfect, and don't be afraid to try something different if the tried and true way don't work for you.
Any more questions just email me here on babble and i'll try to help you out some more.
Good luck and relax

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you may also try phone sex. i had a girl friend( not a g/f, a girl friend) and she had problems playing with herself and problems cuming. i mentioned to her to try phone sex. she at first did not want anything to do with it, then she tried it with me, and was able to pleasure herself because i was telling her what to do, and she also cum which she said she hasnt done since her teen yrs.
give phone sex a try!! and if you would like someone with experience just let me know, i will help you
hope that helps

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Alot of my girlfriends have the same problem...I agree relaxing is a must and also try some soft porn with the above..also try putting a pillow underneath you etc.....let us know how it goes :)

Account deleted on 21 Nov, 2008

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I'm sure you don't 6ixth

Account deleted on 21 Nov, 2008

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Funny how all the masturbation tips from the guys above seem to end in phone sex offers. A little self-serving, don't you think? Oh right! Self-servicing IS what we're talking about here. Nvm.

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It may well be a psychological as well as a physical problem (seeing it as a 'problem' won't help things either), if you're a bit wary of professional help or too embarrassed or what ever, I'd suggest that you go somewhere private, switch off the phone (or at least let it go to vibrate) get a GOOD vibrator, surround your self with whatever you find erotic, and just enjoy yourself, don't even give an orgasm a second thought, enjoy the sensations you do feel (that's why you should get a GOOD vibe) and stop worrying if you're going to cum or not. Maybe you're cumming without realising it, if you're expecting the same bonecrunching spasms of delight that the magazines would have you believe that every one minus a y chromasone is having multipley, you may be in for a bit of a disappointment, everyones orgasms are different, yours may be mild, you may be expecting too much from it. Though I may be talking out of my arse.....
What I would seriously suggest though would be Hypnosis, N.L.P or Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, any of those treatments should 'cure' you, particularly Neuro-Linguistic-Programming, N.L.P. may well work after only one session, it works for most things, I'm pretty sure it would work for you, and I'm pretty sure you're not going to be the first one to come to them with that problem. It's worth a shot.
Oh, and did anyone say that the most important thing is to relax?........

Account deleted on 19 Oct, 2008

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Aww you gotta love snake eh? Jeez a guy who actually gives a feck :D

OK, I found this 'Q&A' website interesting (this link goes to a specific thread about finding it hard to orgasm, but there are many other related questions too):
http://www.goaskalice.columbia.edu/1838.html

It gives you some different ideas, and also suggests some books/other resources.

Obviously it's a very personal and individual thing, but as the great Noel Gallagher once said
"Don't think too hard mate, just enjoy it!"

Good luck

Account deleted on 18 Nov, 2008

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Ahhh! Enthusiastic product endorcement! Gotta love it!

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Omg pink...that's right..don't forget the rabbit!!!!!!!!!

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need any help girls.... just gimme a call

Account deleted on 11 Nov, 2008

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what is your number again beani......?

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I can't stand it any more!
*rips open F G and eats his crispy insides*
Hmmmmmm, deep fried *drool*

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79300392172
but not necessary in that order.....lol

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Goes to her office

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well you could just invite me over :)