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Okay, so I'm not really sure if I'm just a glutton for punishment or what. When I met my current husband we could have sex several times a day, we haven't even KNOWN each other for a year yet, and now I'm lucky to get it once every two weeks or so. I understand that I'm pregnant, but this started happening just right after we got married. On top of that he likes to flirt with anything he sees. I don't mind at all with him being friends with girls, but since we've been together I've caught him trying to set up a time for his ex to come over so they can have sex sessions, and I've caught him jerking off to porn all the time. I don't have a problem with porn here and there or even to get the mood set, but when he would rather have anyone else but me, why even bother staying here? I've even tried to initiate it and it still does no good. On top of that most of the time we'll start off with me giving head and then I'll stop to try and get on and he just tells me to keep going down there and he'll get behind me in a minute. What then happens is I keep going and he ends up cumming all in my mouth, so now I'm wet but have gotten nothing and given it all. I'm really sick and tired of this but I don't know how to approach him or what I should do. I would never cheat on my husband but I'm to the point where I'm seriously about to leave him. Any suggestions before I lose my mind and my marriage?

from Foxy DJ, on 11:11am, 17 Nov, 2010

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That's messed up. You should just be straight up with him and ask him why he's lost interest in you. Communication is key right?

from xxxx8212, on 03:04pm, 17 Nov, 2010
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maybe the "we haven't even KNOWN each other for a year yet" part is the real problem.

from zoe90, on 03:09pm, 17 Nov, 2010
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I'd talk to him, seriously that's crap. I'd be super pissed off.

from Alaycat, on 11:54pm, 29 Jan, 2011
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That reaction of him tells me he has no interest whatsoever of pleasing you. He is taking you for granted probably cause you are pregnant and he thinks that no matter what you won't leave him. Don't panic. Don't even bother in talking to him into going back the way things were assume that things are different now and you two have to find a way if you want to be together. If you try to convince him, He will see you just as needy. Try this: get something sexy or just show off your naked body when he is watching porn. You can even touch yourself. He will put attention to you. Then you can tease him saying something like "I wish I had a big cock like that right now..." if he has half of a brain cell he will get the idea. If he is just that stupid of not getting it, you can tell him in a more direct way " hunny, I need cock twice a week and if you don't give it to me, I'll find someone that want to" and mean it.
Dont let him think you are going to be waiting forever. Those guys that after getting you committed to them are not longer interested in pleasing you are lazy pigs. He needs to know that even you love him and you have parenting responsibilities, you are a woman with needs and someone has to provide, he has to choose if it will be his dick or someone elses dick.

from sakura hot, on 10:30pm, 30 Jan, 2011
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dip his penis into a deep fryer! :D

from yukiko , on 10:01am, 31 Jan, 2011
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If he is coming onto other girls there is nothing wrong with his libido, this being the case he is just being an asshole.

Ditch the toss pot and start dating a corpse, it'll treat you better.

from drazen , on 10:33am, 31 Jan, 2011
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I know where you can get a corpse....

from dannyboi99, on 11:40am, 31 Jan, 2011
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*pokes a large wrapped package that is bleeding on the carpet*

from yukiko , on 03:33pm, 31 Jan, 2011
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As a more mature person(one of the very few here)My advice is for you&he to become each others porn stars!
Have fun with your sexlife so no-one gets bored or feels they are missing something!

from cuckholddon, on 06:01pm, 02 Feb, 2012
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hello
i am sorry to hear that, I have similar issues with my wife and sex. 2 to 3 x a month. and same thing. Unless i do something diff with her. I wish I had some advice. I loved sex with my wife when she was pregnant. I guess that makes me a perv but wow she was hot. anyway, try new things like blindfolding him and playing. Does he like to give oral sex? if he doesnt, he is a fool.

good luck

from jake469, on 04:23am, 03 Apr, 2012
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Two Words ; Divorce Lawyer

from beachgirl64, on 01:18pm, 03 Apr, 2012
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I think it may just be a phase he's going through. At any rate, sit him down and talk. No tv or music on...just you two. Tell him that you two need this communication, AND, if he's going to flirt, at least have the respect not to do it in front of you, and other underlying issues. You are carrying his baby. He should be proud!

from Gypsyheart, on 04:02pm, 03 Apr, 2012
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If she is still carrying his baby something has gone terribly wrong ...

from dannyboi99, on 05:50pm, 03 Apr, 2012
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Interesting, you say you would never cheat on your husband but on your profile it says you would.

from GuitarMaster, on 12:43am, 04 Apr, 2012
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Six words: READ THE DATE OF THIS POST

from peachykeen45, on 03:57am, 04 Apr, 2012
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My bf and i used to be the same..sex all the time, now four years , and two children later, the sex has stopped..if i want some,i have to get some..he doesn't try, doesn't flirt, hold hands, anything romantic.
We have sex twice a month if that..and now I'm on babble!!!

It doesn't help that before i created my account here,i caught him doing the same thing on other sites, so i guess that's why the sex stopped..he'd already wore out his Dick bythe time he came home

from sexxybitch91, on 01:53am, 18 Apr, 2012