... letting go;

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... letting go;

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After trying to make things work together in a long-term relationship, I couldn't take her anymore. But for some reason I can't let go of her.
She's always on my mind.
No matter who I'm having sex with, who I am talking to, she is always on my mind.

I need to let go.
But I'm not just quite sure how.

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Yeh I'm with 6ixth, it will get better, but we can say that to you til we're blue in the face, it doesn't make it any easier now!

Time is the greatest healer (or whatever that saying is!), but yeh, sometimes throwing yourself into a new hobby/job/interest really helps as you're mind is occupied.

Umm ok, I'm just repeating what 6ixth said!!

But honestly it will get better, and every experience helps prepare you for whatever comes next... as one door closes another one ALWAYS opens.

(p.s. I love your name hehe!)

*sends huggles and chocolate* :D

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(Oh and failing all that, I've always found that copious amounts of alcohol and casual sex really helps :D )

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Hehehe yeh I prob shouldn't be encouraging that sort of behaviour, but fuck it, always works for me!
What is it they say? The way to get over one man is to get under another?
(I'm sure it's a unisex statement too!)

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Nah.... You need some Cock ....
That`ll straighten you out... :P


*hears everyone gasp*

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lmao beani... yeh helpful :P And I bet she doesn't, it's not as if men are ANY easier to deal with!!! :P

And luce, I'd say the more the merrier :D

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lol.... lil confused by a cock
cute :)
x

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haha I've been confused by some cocks in my time (and I don't mean the bodypart).

I did suggest similar in the first place lil! The rest, I was just (semi) joking about!!

I also find wishing him dead helps too... what? is that bad?!

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Ritually burn every thing you have that reminds you of her, symbolically ending the whole relationship. It will be a hard thing to do, but it will help you get over her, once she's gone up in smoke, she'll be gone forever. Because your relationship was fraught, you still have unresolved emotional issues, until you close that loop you'll be forever thinking about her, wanting still to try and change her, much the same way as a straight girl thinks she can change a man. It aint going to happen I'm afraid, and the longer you obsess over her, the longer the odds that you'll find another girl to love. Do yourself a favour and ditch the bitch, your worth much better than that. Go on. Go out and reclaim your life.

Take her photographs
Burn them on the barbecue
Watch the smoke rise up.

Now she's just a pile
Of ashes and of embers.
Distant memory

Who's that over there?
She's nice, go and talk to her,
She could be the one!

Six months down the line,
She's a distant memory.
You have love. you're free!

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Awwww snake, yer lovely :D

(if a little scary with the 'ritually burn' bit... :S See what you mean tho hehe)

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Gosh 6ixth... you've hit the nail on the head there! Very perceptive... you really must have sixth sense!!

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No, I just think we may have covered all the bases... plus it's hard to tell other people how to deal with this, it's a very personal thing. :D

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