Orgasms

Kitten62
Subject:
Orgasms
Message:
Hello. Need some advice. I have a VERY hard time bringing myself to orgasm using toys or cybering; only way I really orgasm is when I'm having sex with my bf. Don't know if it's the "whole body" stimulation or more emotional/mental. Problem is that he's often away for weeks at a time, and I would like to be able to satisfy my libido when he's away, and will NOT just go have a one-night-stand. Any suggestions? Anyone else have this problem?

from Kitten62, on 04:46pm, 05 Dec, 2011

Kitten62
Subject:
Re: Orgasms
Message:
That's the whole thing. Can't have a physical tryst since I'm committed to him at the moment...

from Kitten62, on 02:52am, 06 Dec, 2011

ih91
Subject:
Re: Orgasms
Message:
Have you thought of having a more long term cyber partner where you're chatting to him on a regular basis, not just about sex but get getting to know each other as well. Just a thought but that might help you with the emotional side of things if you feel more emotionally involved.

from ih91, on 01:11pm, 06 Dec, 2011

Kitten62
Subject:
Re: Orgasms
Message:
ih91, that's an excellent suggestion. I've got a great relationship now with one of the guys I've met here on Babble, and we've gotten to know each other very well. Still not able to have a soul-splitting orgasm, but think I might be thinking about it too much as well. It's like the appetite is there (still horny) but I just can't get full enough! Weird...

from Kitten62, on 09:28pm, 08 Dec, 2011

ih91
Subject:
Re: Orgasms
Message:
I have to admit that is weird, the only thing I can say is maybe it is just testament to the relationship you have. Hope you find a solution.

from ih91, on 10:27pm, 08 Dec, 2011

billy212- 1
Subject:
Re: Orgasms
Message:
still hitting all the same spots you do during sex? IE anal/ gspot/ clit. lack of anything. nipples squeezing (the N spot) try teasing yourself like foreplay. might help a little bit. also ive heard nothing but good things about the VR11 by jopen.

from billy2121, on 09:20pm, 10 Dec, 2011

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