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Help with a girl i like

Subject:: Help with a girl i like
Message:: I have me t a wonderful girl online who lives in a different country and she wants to move here to be with me. she is asking me to pay for her moving and says she will pay me back when she gets paid.

I am scepticle about this and am not sure on how to tell her without breaking her heart.

In the back of my mind i feel as if she ? he is conning me out of money.

Can i have some input on what I should do please.

from d4aussie_gent, 03:28am, 05 Mar, 2010

Subject:: Re: Help with a girl i like
Message:: do you know she`s `real`? have you seen her on cam or spoken with her on the phone?

Frankly, if it`s going to `break her heart`if you don`t give her cash, then her heart`s in the wrong place.

Other than running in the opposite direction as fast as you can, I`d suggest being direct. Speak to her on the phone, get her on cam and then say straight out;

`we haven`t met in person and it`s not a function of you, but I`m natrually cautious about lending money to ANYONE`

advice aside, if it smells like a scam and sounds like a scam and looks like a scam, buddy, it probably IS a scam.

from Shannonx, 04:20am, 05 Mar, 2010

Subject:: Re: Help with a girl i like
Message:: The last part of shannon's comment is crucial.

If you have seen her on cam etc and feel you want to give this a shot, offer her help in ways she can't transform in cash. i.e. If you can afford it, offer her to buy her ticket, but don't send her money for her moving expenses. If she says she'd rather havie the money for the ticket than the ticket itself -if she starts to sound like that nigerian gentleman who needs an uderstanding fellow with a bank account to close on a million dollar business, well go back to to the last thing shannon said and say amen.

from ludovico, 04:42am, 05 Mar, 2010

Subject:: Re: Help with a girl i like
Message:: Thank you I have taken all this on board and have decided to end the friendship with her as all she wants to talk about now is how I am going to get her the money.

I have only known her 2 weeks and feel that she is going extremely quick and that I am still living with my ex wife and we have a chance to get back together.

from d4aussie_gent, 10:32pm, 08 Mar, 2010

Subject:: Re: Help with a girl i like
Message:: Shannon layed it all out nicely. From what you say it is a scam. Cheers mate.

from TimeWiseGuy, 05:19am, 16 Mar, 2010

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