Am I having a real orgasm?

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Am I having a real orgasm?

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Hey, just wondering if anyone could help me with this.
I have never had sex, but I masterbate fairly frequently, and everytime I'm going through what I believe to be an orgasm (sharp uprise in pleasure and then sensitivity) I never come. I've heard that for females when you come it feels like you have to pee but I never get that until after the orgasm. Is this abnormal?

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The sensation of needing to pee is usually when it comes to squirting. If you are about/close to orgasming you will find yourself breaking out in sweat, your legs may start shaking, your heart rate increasing rapidly.

Relax by the way!! I thought i'd never orgasm, i thought there was something wrong with me because i heard about other girls shaking but it never seemed to happen to me - and then one night it happened.

And it WILL happen to you too!!

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I have had an orgasm then. I guess I'm not a squirter.
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Does that mean I still come but not as obviously? Cause I do notice that around the time of an orgasm I get significantly wetter, but I don't notice it until afterward. It doesn't seem to shoot out and make itself obvious.

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I think that is your orgasm. I need a lot of clitoral stimulation to cum. But when I do, i start to sweat, clench my pc, and i feel like i can't breath. And don't worry about the squirting, I've never been able to squirt either, but I really luv my o's.

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I'm no doctor or even a woman, but I gather that, like everything else in life. it's different for everyone, the trick is to enjoy what sensations you do feel and not overanalyse it. Lose yourself in the moment and as brain and body are allowed to relax, you may find that you experience the 'symptoms' that all those legendary 'other femails' are enjoying without thinking about it. It's the same for men to a certain extent, though we consider ejaculation to be the main 'symptom' of male orgasm, there are all sorts of variables, some will cry tears as others go off like a fire hose, some may just get a bit spacey for a few seconds whilst others go into a fulll-on endorphin trance. Some men get overwhelming feelings of love afterward others overwhelming feelings of self disgust, guilt and general misogeny! Personally, after all that effort, there's nothing more I like to do than have a smoke and watch the telly!

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Squirting is not a myth, you just need to know how to do it. It takes time to learn how to do it but when you have you will find that 85-90% of females can 'Squirt' if the situation is right. It scared the shit out of me the first time I did it to a fem but excited me also and have now introduced more fems to a squirting orgasm :)

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some signs

you'll feel your body go a lil bit rigid...your clit gets reddish pink as blood rushes into the lips

you'll feel the sensation to pee..just relax an go on stimulating

will give a detailed report

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stage 1 excitement


This is one of the easiest stages to reach for both men and women. A woman can become excited just by smelling your cologne or having your hand brush against her breasts. She can become excited by fantasizing about sexual encounters or by flirting with you during dinner. In fact, during the average date, women may become excited ten to fifteen times. Most of those times do not lead to the next level, however.
The female body responds to this stage in very specific ways. Let's go through some of those physical signs of excitement:
Her nipples become erect
Her vagina starts becoming lubricated
Her clitoris begins to swell and grow larger
The inner parts of her vagina begin to expand
Her breasts may even increase in size if she becomes highly aroused
These are not the only physical signs, but these are probably the ones you or her may notice. Notice that during this early stage, her vagina is already becoming lubricated. Many men have the mistaken notion that this is a sign that a woman is ready to engage in intercourse. That is not the case. A lubricated vagina only means a woman is aroused. All of these signs do suggest, however, that her body is preparing for the possibility of sex.

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stage 2 Plateau

This second stage does not occur as frequently as the arousal or excitement stage. In fact, most incidents of arousal never reach this level. So when does a woman reach this level? Well, she will require more physical stimulation. Foreplay, for example, will help her move to this stage, so does increased fantasizing. During this stage, sexual tension inside her body is growing.
This stage is also accompanied by more physical signs. A few of those signs are listed below:
Breasts may increase noticeably in size
The vagina swells and the vaginal opening begins to narrow
The clitoris becomes more erect
Her heart beat may increase noticeably
The color of the labia minora will change from pink to either red or wine-color
This final physical sign is very important. Researchers have found that if the color-change does not occur, then women rarely have an orgasm.
About one-half to three-fourths of women also experience what is termed a “sex flush” on parts of their body. The increased blood flow to the skin sometimes gives the appearance of a flush over the chest or other parts of the body.
During the plateau stage, the woman's body is becoming ready for intercourse. Only near the end of this stage is she physically ready for vaginal intercourse.

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stage 3 orgasm


After her body is truly ready for intercourse and if she is receiving the proper stimulation – usually clitoral – then it does not take long for her to reach the third stage.
so if you really want to know whether you are making her climax or not you just need to pay attention to the physical signs.
Muscle contractions – Intense muscle contractions through the pelvic area will occur during the orgasm. A woman can have three to fifteen of these contractions depending on the strength of her orgasm. She may also experience muscle contractions in other parts of the body as well.
Most women's bodies become temporarily rigid at the highest point of their orgasm. This lasts for only a moment, but its something you may notice.
The “sex flush” is another indicator of orgasm. At this stage, it becomes brighter and more noticeable. It may also have spread to other areas of her body.
Another tell-tale sign of orgasm in some women is ejaculation. Some women do ejaculate after an orgasm.
Although you won't be able to see this, an orgasm can be detected by looking at a woman's brain wave patterns. There is a clear difference.

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stage 4 resoultion


This is an interesting stage because what happens during it depends on what did not happen before or what is continuing to happen. For example, if a woman does successfully complete the third stage then she may be able to have multiple orgasms.
If a woman does not have an orgasm, then her body will begin to return to normal but it will take longer. Many women report physical discomfort in the pelvic area during this process.
You should also keep in mind that after an orgasm a woman's breasts and nipples will be incredibly sensitive. In fact, they can be so sensitive that touching them is uncomfortable for her.
After the last orgasm, the “sex flush” will disappear.
Also, your partner may experience heavy sweating, rapid heart beating, and/or heavy breathing.
The resolution stage marks the end of the cycle for women.

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had once sent this to a friend

he had asked abt Orgasm

an i had replied to him with all this

didn't get time to write down a new one

neways hope this will help

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Fuck me Sam! Do you have a doctorate in Human Sexuality or something? Or did you just Google it? hahaha!

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*prints out and keeps a copy for future reference*

*photocopies and distributes in cereal packets and pubs*

*makes into a mini book to give to future boyfriends (if)*

*realises what she was missing!!*

*wonders if sam is a porno doctor hehehe*