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Is it possible to last too long in bed? If so how do you remedy it?

I've gone 7 hours straight without stopping or cumming. Only real reason we stopped was cause we were both too sore to continue though it felt good.

How can I make it so I can actually enjoy it? I've only ever came once inside (with condom) her pussy during and thats more out of love than fun. I want to learn to cum from fun and not as much love.

from JackDawson1912, on 09:59am, 13 Jan, 2012

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did you not read the warning on the pills?

"if you have an erection lasting more than 7 hrs. see a doctor immediately"

from insert name here , on 10:02pm, 13 Jan, 2012
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You're thinking too much, mate. Just relax and it will cum.

from Apoccock, on 10:06pm, 13 Jan, 2012
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Insert lol No that's naturally.

and Apoccock, I'll try but its hard when theres no one to practice with lol.

from JackDawson1912, on 11:32pm, 13 Jan, 2012
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Not many women want you to last like that! If your dr. says your OK then my guess would be that you have some sort of mental block!

from cuckholddon, on 06:27am, 14 Jan, 2012
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I would be done well before 7 hours. i would have cum and would be far past going dry at that point. does she give you a good BJ before sex?

from annabelleO, on 08:21am, 14 Jan, 2012
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Cuck- Yeah I know that. I don't have a doctor but I'm pretty sure he'd be okay with it if I had one, considering I'm 290 lbs. ;)

Anna- I've never gotten a "good" BJ. they've either been too afraid of it (me cumming), didn't care much about it, didn't know how to do it without teeth, or had braces...

from JackDawson1912, on 09:47am, 17 Jan, 2012
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is this 1 woman or many? if it's one maybe it's time to move on from the relationship if its many try having a bit more emotional attachment to her before going to the sex.

if you cant let go maybe shes not the right person or maybe it's something deeper in your head from childhood or something.

7 hours would be worse than 7 minutes for me.

i like cake but if i had to eat it for 7 hours straight id soon tire of it.

from LilLeicsGurl16, on 07:10pm, 20 Jan, 2012
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Leics- this was with a fuck buddy I had. Since then even if it isn't 7 hours its still hard for me to cum.

from JackDawson1912, on 08:01pm, 20 Jan, 2012
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you could try having like a train of 7 women? then you could service each for an hour

from dannyboi99, on 05:13pm, 21 Jan, 2012
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How are you solo, as in is this a problem you have on your own as well? Might well be medical if that is the case?

from dragongirth, on 10:42am, 23 Jan, 2012
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Holy shizzballs I thought a couple of hours was a long time but 7??? My god you would have to have been using axle grease as lube.

My guess is there is something preventing you getting just the stimulation you need to complete the deed (ooooo poet and I don't know it). Try a solo test flight, if done in under 7 hours then might be something in your head (the big head dude).

Either that or lay off the coke before you have sex.

from Funny Guy on 11:43am, 24 Jan, 2012
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Danny- that doesnt work around here in Vegas.

Dragon- If I'm just masturbating than I can get off anywhere from 2 mins to 2 hours depending on how long I want to enjoy it.

Guy- Actually if you get a woman that is naturally wet and is into it than lube isn't a problem. lol I've never been high on drugs in my life.

from JackDawson1912, on 01:13pm, 24 Jan, 2012
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You should do foreplay until you know youll cum quick....then sex. Or just keep stopping for her to play wih you and get you closer.

I like sex. But i dont think id wanna go for 7 hours...not constantly anyway

Maybe with breaks.in between lol

from The_Nic, on 02:05pm, 25 Jan, 2012
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Could be not getting enough stimulation try ansl extra tight better for less endowed outright also she could just be a lil loose just jerk off a lot and cum quick as you can if all else fails try a guy

from billy2121, on 03:48pm, 25 Jan, 2012
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Yes definitely more foreplay stimulation is needed.

7 hours....ouch is all i can say!

from R Falange , on 01:18pm, 26 Jan, 2012
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UPDATE: Just had sex yesterday and there wasn't enough stimulation... She says that she doesn't really know how to make it better for the guy. All the things I like she won't do. I'm not sure how to go about things.

FYI I only came after jacking off afterwords, though to my credit I made her Orgasm at the least 10 times. I felt every one of them and she lost count but of the ones we are sure there were at least 10.

from JackDawson1912, on 06:10am, 06 Feb, 2012
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YOu really are a man. I want to try if you can do it on me too?
Kidding. What did you take? pills or anything?

from sweetsophie19 , on 03:08pm, 11 Feb, 2012
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Sophie, Nothing. All I did was get hard from sucking her tits and clit, put a condom on, and fuck her til she slept.

Oh and last night I got some and I finally made her squirt! yay achievement.. lol Though I did it with my hands and not my cock. That will be another Achievement.

from JackDawson1912, on 07:12pm, 22 Feb, 2012
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Suck it up bro. I've had the same prob for years. I can last for 7 or 8 hours but no girl I have met has been able to match and after they cum about 7 times they get tired. My advice is to just make her cum a few times and then ask her to tell you when she wants you to cum. Then cum when she wants you too. It gives her more feelings of control and keeps her from getting too sore for the next time.

-Best wishes

from iamwhiteandhot, on 08:29pm, 22 Feb, 2012
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I always had this "problem" off and on for many years, which I think is mostly psychological - for one thing I never wanted to get a girl pregnant. Another psychological element is that maybe deep down inside you don't really like her that much, or she said something that pissed you off or did something that you may still resent on a subconscious level. Just because a girl/woman (or boy/man) is hot and arousing and you want to fuck them, doesn't mean you necessarily like everything about them - or even like them at all. I think for me that has been part of the problem. When I was younger I never wanted to settle down and so I only looked for girls I really wanted to fuck, not girls I really, really liked.
I'm sure the pregnancy concern was the biggest part of it, though, because I got my soon-to-be-ex pregnant on our wedding night - BOOM! - after years of being careful not to cum inside a girl.

Some girls think it's fantastic, especially at first if they've been with a bunch of premature ejaculators, but before long they all come around to being a bit upset you don't cum every time. Even if you make them cum several times and you assure them you enjoy it 100% as much (true), they still don't like it. So I tell you something I discovered - guys, you can fake an orgasm just like girls can, if you play it right. If she's on birth control and she's all wet, warm and gushy down there, she won't know whether maybe you came and didn't ejaculate much or not. Same with wearing a condom - she won't know if you just flush it right away and put on a little "I'm cumming" show for her. Not to be deceptive in a mean way but just to keep her happy and prevent those annoying questions ("Is it something about me?") that can't be answered in any way that will satisfy her. ("No, of course not!" you say, truthfully - but she still doesn't believe you)
I also found that even if I had trouble cumming during intercourse, a good combination of handjob and blowjob after you've worn her out almost always works. Especially if she'll coax you a little bit by tell you she wants your cum on her tits, face, or wherever.

from businessman43, on 11:34pm, 28 Mar, 2012