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Need some advice from females

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I know this is kinda sad but I am 20 years old and have only had sex once before.

Lately I have been feeling a lot more confident but still have a problem when it comes to woman, And it's not that I feel bad about my own looks, I think I am a decent looking guy

I am kind of shy when I first meet girls and I am a very respectful and nice guy towards the ladies it's just I always have the problem of having a hard time making the move. I just don't want to put a girl in a weird situation or make her feel uncomfortable.

I just need some advice as to when I should know if the girl is down to hookup or not and how I should go about going after a girl I want.

\Thanks

from bigpaul15, on 12:47am, 03 Feb, 2012

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i'd worry less about being some sort of "player" looking to hookup and just be yourself.

Speaking only for myself, i find it utterly transparent when someone's trying to be something other than themselves and it's not attractive at all.

And don't worry, if a girl is down to hookup with you, she'll let you know. ;-)

from zoe90, on 02:09am, 03 Feb, 2012
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agree with Zoe. Most of us prefer gentlemen. Does your problem include even asking someone out for a date?

from Anna_I_am, on 02:14am, 03 Feb, 2012
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Anna that's a damn lie. I've been the romantic gentleman for YEARS and always got friendzoned.

from JackDawson1912, on 10:13am, 03 Feb, 2012
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thanks for the advice zoe, And yeh I'm not going to change who I am. I am glad i was raised the way I was and am happy with the person I am today, Just gotta give it some time and find a girl who grows out of the likeing jerks phase hah.

from bigpaul15, on 09:28am, 05 Feb, 2012
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I like nice guys..
maybe you should like yourself more. Make friends. Get rid of that instinct to hook them up. Just make friends. Then maybe, someone will whisper and say, "lets go to bed"

from sweetsophie19 , on 03:13pm, 11 Feb, 2012